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Sunday, 07 February 2010

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    Rated R
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    Russian Roulette
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    My First Ink Job ...

    melaniec I've been wanting to have one since I saw Mel C from the Spice Girls. Geez! That was a long time ago, ei? I know I've been a kid back then and now that I'm old enough, it took me a few more years before I finally decided to get one.

    It was a prolonged decision making process considering that there are lots of factors running in my head ...

    • Will it hurt bad? Will I not regret it?
    • What if I get a disease out of doin' it? Will it be safe?
    • Will my parents be mad at me? Am I still gonna be accepted by my family and friends?
    • What if I want a different design? This one's gonna be marked on me for a lifetime. Will I not get satiated?
    • Is this gonna affect my career and my reputation? Will I still get decent jobs if I get one?

    I guess there are more items I get troubled with but I decided to stand firm with my decision and not to be worried by a lot of things. I've been wanting to have one for a long time now and nothing's gonna stop me. No one can. I've lived my life considering other people's wants and needs and sacrificing my own, most of the time. This one's just one of those things but what the heck! I gotta decide on my own.

    Yesterday, I was with my client Joelynn Holliday and a few friends ... Jamie Blocker, Bo Mariano, and Jan Salvador. We all decided to a tattoo. Jamie's a hard core tattoo freak. LOL. She referred us to this shop with prestige ... P&P Tattoo. It was rather expensive as a minimum cost but hell! Their designs are awesome! Plus, their tools are well-maintained and you are ensured of safety and cleanliness. Oh boy! It was freaky at first but I got so excited and finally got one!

    Chai Tattoo

    I've always had a henna tattoo of this design from time to time. It excudes character in me and represents more of me ... the Chinese character for love ... "Ai."

    P and P It took the artist just ... 30 minutes I guess to complete my design. I was worried at first that they might not be able to make it look like a real Chinese text unless they're really Chinese. I actually thought twice. But ... they did it fine! Hooraay! I was happy with it. Simple yet meaningful. My reaction ... well, all throughout the process, I was screaming like crazy while Joelynn was hugging me and holding my hand. LOL.  They placed a lot of petroleum jelly on my legs ... well I kinda requested for that too coz I thought, the more lubricated my legs are, the better it'll feel and it won't hurt too much. Haha. I was wrong though. I also felt the needle! [Photo credits: http://panicqueen16.multiply.com]

    Well, it's done! It's done! I guess after some time, I will decide on adding more. I also wanted an armband celtic design with my name in Chinese "Cai" on top of it. Lemme think about it more and finally I may be able to get it ... sooner or later. It's the art I want so lemme have it ...

    Chai

Monday, 11 January 2010

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    Video Phone
    By Beyoncé
    Videophone ft. Lady Gaga
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    My Top 10 For 2010!

    Most folks have done their Top 10 Wishlists for the year already. And I guess, because of my uber-busy schedule, I happen to be online ONLY every once in a while. Geez! So, what do I want to accomplish this year? I tried to jot down a few on my Dream Board and wow! I just realized I have lots already. I hope I can achieve 'em all ... starting off with a few this year.

    So, here goes my list's items ...

    1. Asian Trip

      singapore

      I had my share of a Euro-trip way back 2003. This time, I want to visit Asian countries. I haven't gone out of my country since then. An Asian cruise would do but I figured, that will be very costly haha. Maybe, the country I ever-wanted to go since 2004 ... Singapore! Me and my friends planned to go there last year but due to the lamest excuse I had (i.e. work), weren't able to come. LOL.  

      Well, I better manage my work-life balance now and this year, my friend Emz is rooting to go back there and Celine, my online buddy for long (since my startup year in Xanga) is looking forward for a girls party party party when we get there. Hahaha.  Not to mention, I may be meeting a few Xanga buddies too like, Erniesurn! So, let's see when we're hitting off to SG!

    2. Health ... Better Health

      scolio treatment 

      I really should be taking better care of my health. Last year 2009, I've been a darn workaholic. I was averaging 16 hours per day at work and oftentimes, I spend a 6-day work week. No wonder a few of my friends told me that my work is the biggest boyfriend-repellant kind of job.  Well, everything I do is for my family anyway ... my mom, dad, and younger sister. Being the breadwinner ain't easy. Lots of little sacrifices I have to do every now and then. I kinda neglected my scoliosis treatments last year due to lack of time.

      This year, I want to continue my sessions before it's too late. I don't wanna wear those back braces. They won't look good on my fashion statement. LOL.  Kidding aside, well, I really just need to restart my sessions and drink my medicines. This is just one of the other body ailments I endure though haha. So young yet so sickly. Guess it pays being the eldest in the family. Yikes! You grow old faster haha! Sheesh! Healthy living should be my priority this time.

    3. Photography 

      canon

      I don't want to be a photographer though but I gotta get my own digital camera. I love taking photos that serve as memories. This comes with a bad memory though. Well, I was a victim of fire in 2006; which made me leave Xanga on hiatus mode for some time too. I had one photography class in college and boy, that was "old school" style. I only knew how to hold an SLR camera. My shots were all produced in prints. I kept them for quite some time and scanned a few. However, the fire that caught our house consumed 'em all. I wasn't able to keep my past memories. And so, I told myself, one day I will rekindle with capturing moments and I guess this year, it can be a start.

      I want a DSLR if given a chance haha! A few friends offline shared a few tips on DSLR photography using Canon EOS 450D. I might buy the same unit. I learn by example and since my friends are already "pro's" in it, I will learn from them. Otherwise, I'll stick with regular digicams. A Canon IXUS 80 (is it the right model?) is fine with me haha. Hopefully, mid year I already have my own. Right now, I only capture moments using my cellphone's cam hehe.

    4. Music

      ipod

      I should have a place to store my MP3s and carry 'em along where I go, aside from my cellphone. I love my cellphone's multifunctional purpose for me. Haha. However, right now, it's getting clogged with my music files and I use it mostly for playing music.

      I guess I should buy myself an iPOD Shuffle at least. I don't want too much fancy anyway, just a simple device where I can save data. The smaller, the better haha! My bag has too much girl stuff in it already. I don't want a lot more!

    5. Shelter

      herhome

      Probably, this year, I can move my family out of the neighborhood where we lived for 20+ years. It's no longer healthy for us to live in the apartment where we reside now, anyway. I want somewhere with better tranquility. Peace ... quiet ... and not a lot of gangsta wars or neighbor conflicts. Luckily, we never got involved in one (or ... yeah I got into a couple of instances I guess hahaha) but it's better safe than sorry. I'm still looking for a place where I can move, still with my parents and sis.

      My parents are getting older of course and I know I hafta take better care of them as well. Good thing my sister's a nurse (yeah, and I'm proud to have helped her finish college ) so she can help more on the medical aspect. I ain't planning to build a house of our own though ... one thing, I don't have the money to have one haha. Maybe, another apartment or a subdivision away from the current ...

    6. Gaming

      ps3

      I specifically want a Sony PS3! Woot! I have my PSP already and a PS3 will be cool! My dad somehow owns my PSP now, by the way, LOL  coz I can't get it out off his hands anymore hahaha. I was thinking of getting a Nintendo WII too but I guess Sony captured my heart. LOL.

      I know for sure I'll just be playing mostly Tekken in there and the rest of the games will be for my sister and dad. As long as they are happy, I'm happy too. I know my mom wouldn't play it anyway hahaha. So I have one less person who'll fight with me for PS3 time. Bwahahaha. But seriously, I'll just use it to release stress and when I buy one, it's really just for sis and dad ...

    7. Hobby

      cosplay

      And the hobby that is COSPLAY! Woot! Last year, it was a rough battle for me. I was excited to attend conventions; learn more stuff from friends and new people I meet every now and then; enhance my skills in terms of character portrayal ... as well as better selection of cloth that my tailor will use (me tooooo picky haha); meet more and more friends to cosplay with and share the hobby. Oh boy! My first year in cosplaying was so much fun! This year, I'm looking forward for a better one. Indeed I met new friends that I considered another family. There was drama too but it's a learning experience for me. After all, families do have dramas too anyway. So I consider 'em as learning milestones and I know I'll be able to fix a few derailed paths soon. This year, I know there are loads more in store for me and I still want to improve on my craft on this hobby.

      I wish to do crossplay too! Weee! I hope I'd look handsome! Nyahahahah!  The photo I used is of "Shizuka" - http://rainertachibana.deviantart.com ... one of the cosplay idols I have. She's very versatile whether she cosplays a female or a male character. I know I wouldn't be able to do as many cosplays and cosplays as good as she did but at least, I wish to try! Ho ho ho! Experience is the best teacher!

    8. Exercise

      parkour

      I saw these devilish moves some time last year but I never knew what it's called until this year. LOL. Poor me. I just found out that a few of my friends are already doing this thing called Free Running a.k.a. Parkour!

      I've been looking for some sort of an exercise that I can start as a routine this year. My ortho-doctor has advised me to have one anyway, and a good exercise can keep my back straight. I tried the gym before but I never had the urge to continue. It's probably because, well, I never had a gym buddy ... or so my gym buddy goes there at a different time because we had different work schedules hahaha. And since a few of my other friends are into parkour, which I believe can give me a total body workout as well, I might start it soon! Yay!

    9. Further Studies

      Masters

      I want to have a Masters Degree hence I plan to take up further studies. I already graduated with honors in college, with a degree of A.B Communication Arts. However, I believe, that to be more competitive in the workforce nowadays, your learning should continue. With me, it has never stopped. I always try to find some time for business readings every now and then to improve my knowledge in the field I belong to.

      It's a rough road out there, especially when we talk about the corporate world. I've always wanted to start my schooling again but I always use up all my funds for my family's needs. This year looks promising though ... salary's a bit more favorable since last year and I've saved up a few. Maybe I could complete this part of my dream board then ... hmmm ... I dread the dissertations though hahahah!

    10. Hobby Again ...

      Shuraki Trinity - Good Smile Company

      And yes, another hobby! Figure collecting! Wooohoo! It's rather expensive but what the heck! I appreciate the art. I was trying to figure out why I wanted to do this anyway. My first ever figure was a Figma Saber. And then I started to get more and more pieces like the Shuraki Trinity multimedia figure sets from Good Smile Company ... I guess it roots back to my love for Barbie dolls. Hahah. I used to have 200+ pieces if I'm not mistaken (combined with my sister's dolls). But the fire took 'em all as well. All the unique pieces I got were gone ... those pieces I grew up with. *sigh*

      Nevertheless, as I moved on from that tragedy, I relived my life with my family. I pray that we won't get hit again. I pity my other relatives though (since we used to live in a compound, together with our other relatives on the 1st degree / family members). They haven't move on fast enough. I pray that they'll be able to cope still. The least I could do is to give them financial support as well ... and I continue doing this until now ... I guess the people really dear to my heart have a special allocation in my funding already since then ... I'll always help them ...

      Oh well, on a happier note, I wish to get more figures this year. I don't mean to increase the number of figures I buy though ... haha. I just want to increase the figures I have right now. Maybe a maximum of 5 more only ... LOL. I ain't too addicted to it yet anyway. Just a few! Those I consider as faves.

     

    So there you go! I still have plenty of items on my list but these are the ones I ranked 'til 10. God help me on my work-life hahahah! Credits to http://www.gettyimages.com for the stock photos (unless otherwise stated above).

    You, did you list down your wish list for the year too? I guess you all did ... I was too late to post mine hehe.

    Chai

Wednesday, 30 December 2009

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    The Fame Monster [Deluxe Edition]
    By Lady Gaga
    Bad Romance
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    Happy Holidays 2009

    I've been missing in action for quite some time now haha ... had tons of work stuff to do but I'm glad Xanga is still around for me to express my thoughts.

    Well, for now, I have nothing else on my plate but to greet everyone and my fellow Xangans a very Merry Christmas and a Prosperous New Year 2010! Woot!

    Holiday_2009_by_chenmeicai

    I just tried to do my own Christmas ID holiday greeting card hahaha. Felt like a fake princess on my pose here. LOL.

    I will probably share later on my post-birthday, Christmas, and New Year life happenings but I just don't have the time to do it now. Teehee! Resolution, reflection, etc. More to come ... Probably, I should blog more often haha.

    Looking forward to 2010, I wish that you all be blessed with ...

    more love to give ... more kindness to share ...
    more peace of mind to inspire others ... more friends to spend life with ...
    more patience to endure work (or school - especially to my friends out there who are still going to school) ...
    more understanding to understand your fellows better and lead them to the right path
    more care for your colleagues and family members
    more knowledge to contribute abundantly to the society (if you don't lah haha ... well I just meant we need to contribute more) ...
    more food on the table to stay healthy ...
    more abundance of other stuff as well ... give more to the world ...
    more virtues to keep ...
    more mercy from the heart to forgive ...
    more carefree attitude to live a better life ...

    ... And more money to spend ... so you can also go ahead and treat me out our buy me gifts and cutesy collectibles ... ho ho ho!

    Need I say more? Enjoy the rest of the holidays! Muah!

    Chai

Friday, 13 November 2009

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    The 3rd Album [Sorry, Sorry] Version B
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    1 Day Hiring

    I encountered one candidate today that I interviewed for a post in my project, who said that actually, she is not in favor of companies who apply a one-day hiring policy. This is somehow new to me because most of the time, the applicants I speak with are hungry for their posts on the onset of the interview and somehow get laid back when the process takes longer. But this one candidate was unique and in fact, she liked the fact that for my project, it doesn't take her to get hired in just one day because she believes that

    recruitment And so I asked her why she prefers a longer process than the usual. She simply said it's because it gives her ample time as well to feel if she belongs in the company or not since she still needs to go back. Sweet and simple answer. However, it dawned on me as well to wander in deep thought, what if we do apply it in the project I'm involved with? Currently, we do not apply this policy for the reason that we have certain requirements and steps to undergo with prior to a candidate being declared as a successful applicant and get hired. Our Recruitment Department used to follow that before. Somehow with our project, it cannot be effective.

    There are pros and cons of course that could be blown up to a larger scale if I'm going to expand my list. From the top of my head I can simply say that a One-Day Hiring Process:

     

    • Increases your chances of hiring top candidates who are in-demand before they get better offers
    • Attracts more aspiring applicants to try out their best in your company without much hassle in scheduling since the decision can be made within the day
    • Gives you a larger pool of candidates to choose from considering that more candidates are processed in a day
    • Saves you more time in going over a series of tests and assessments and go straight to matching the profile to your standards

    On the other hand, an Extensive Hiring Process can:

    • Avoid poor and snappy hiring decisions by carefully analyzing test results and psychological exams that suit your needs
    • Relieve you of the worry about the quality of hire since you followed a detailed and comprehensive process to make sure you made the right decision before extending the offer
    • Gives you lesser troubles in terms of the number of hires you have to find a better job fit
    • Makes you know more about the person you're going to work with in terms of background verification, fit for the account, personality, comfortability with working with you, etc.

    This list may go longer ... I'm not a recruiting specialist but I take care of validation interviews for sales people before I endorse them to the final step ... talking to my client which can make or break them in terms of joining my project. Our hiring process includes test examinations, a thorough interview process, and a sales assessment which lasts longer than a day of course. For me, I get to source the candidates better this way as well and I get to know more about their strengths and weaknesses so I could be more confident that they can do the job. However, we can probably still improve this process.

    I don't know about you guys but I wanna find out ... what do you think? As an applicant, do you prefer an extensive one or a shorter hiring process?

    Chai

Wednesday, 11 November 2009

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    Boom Boom Pow
    By Black Eyed Peas
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    What's Keepin' Me Busy ...

    I’ve been very busy lately. At first, I thought it was just an aftermath of the Typhoon Ondoy. But then I realized it’s far more than that. Priorities remain as priorities but I feel much-obliged to post this … otherwise … as my favorite phrase would be quoted, I’m dead to the world.

    Here’s a list of a few things in the project plan that came along the way:

    • Ondoy Relief Operations for affected company employees and fund drive for other victims92866265
    • 3rd Q 2009 Business Review
    • Aggressive ramp plan for 2 simultaneous classes of 25 headcount each
    • Account’s Anniversary Party for 180 people
    • Halloween Theme Decors and Costume Contest
    • 4th Q 2009 Winter Offer for our account – rollout, training, huddles, new theme and bay designs
    • New Holliday Event 2-Month Long offer - rollout, training, huddles, new theme and bay designs
    • Thanksgiving Preparations
    • 4th Q 2009 Monthly, Weekly, and Daily incentive schemes
    • Daily War Room and Weekly Business Performance Review – new client requirements
    • CCAP Jamming 09: Battle of the Bands Elimination Round
    • CCAP Fashionistas: Go-See Event Elimination Round and Finals
    • Process Maps per Department – Support and Operations
    • Audits and Confidentiality – Security Awareness and Compliance Desk Sweeps
    • Christmas Party Event Planning – company-wide
    • Year-End Goal of 200 headcount for the account
    • My 4th Q 2009 Cosplay Plans

    My Business Leader needs all the help necessary and this is by far, the list we’re working on as we speak. Changes may take place without prior notice … meaning, there are more to come hahaha … and others may be put to a halt until completion of the rest.

    92873617 Oh well! That’s life! Guess I’m still as workaholic as I am. I need a breather at some point but there’s no stopping now. I guess it’s because I’m in for a bigger goal that will definitely be beneficial for me and my family … and my own-family in the future. No plans for settling yet for me as of this writing. I have no partner to settle with in the first place haha. For now, it’s the least of my priorities. Surely, some folks are trying to come in my life. I guess the biggest challenge is where do I put them in my hectic schedules. They need to adjust, right? LOL.

    What goal, you ask? Well, I’m planning to move out my family from the neighborhood I grew up with. I just find it unsafe anymore and given that my parents are old now to care for themselves alone, I feel the burden of caring for them, being the eldest daughter. My sister’s earnings are enough for herself and I have no issues with that. I’ve partly financed her education to make her achieve her dream of being a nurse so if she feels fulfilled, I am fulfilled. She helps us out nonetheless. We’re trying to look for a better location where I wouldn’t worry of them and our keepsakes everyday. Project Movement! Yeah! This would entail cost for sure but if it’s for our betterment, then I shouldn’t think twice. Of course ... this is just one of the goals ...

    I treasure my family so much. They’re the source of my energy and passion. Therefore, my plan for a bigger and brighter future would be put in vain, if not for them. I’m looking forward to 2010. While there are roadblocks along the way, I sigh with a deep breath and still say … Everything’s gonna be alright. It has always been. God help me!

    <<photo credits to gettyimages.com>>

    Chai

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  • chenmeicai
    @AguzzRocchee - Oh I'm doing just fine! I haven't been much on Xanga lately but this still remains as my primary blog for thoughts and rants. :D Keep in touch!
  • chenmeicai
    @AguzzRocchee - Hello Agustina! How are you? :D
  • AguzzRocchee
    how are you?
  • AguzzRocchee
    ChaiI!
  • chenmeicai
    @itsshiela - Hey April! How have you been?
  • chenmeicai
    @babyglyniss - It's been long since I last visited my chatboard hahaha. I see this has been posted since last year. LOL.
  • itsshiela
    hey you look pretty on ur costumes =]]
  • babyglyniss
    hey love, you havent updated for a long time. how have you been?
  • chenmeicai
    @babyglyniss - Yeah I guess it did. There's a # count beside the "heart"/recommend and "star" icons so when you click to vote / recommend / rate a post, it will just increase count. (^_^) Thanks a lot! I'm in for Round 3 so thanks to you ... a great contributor! I'll be finishing my piece w/c I'll p
  • babyglyniss
    i have to click the stars above the comment box isn't it? i've clicked a few times but it didnt show any anything so i'm wondering if it has recorded my votes. hehe. welcome girl! it's my pleasure~
  • chenmeicai
    @babyglyniss - Haha! Yeah! Thanks a lot girl. I really appreciate it! If that were for you, I'll do the same of course. (^_^)v
  • babyglyniss
    hey girl im doing good. a lil' busy recently..a lot of assignments due next week. yikes! i've sent few messages to cakalusa for the votes. is that what i'm supposed to do to cast votes for u?
  • itsshiela
    oh hey can i ask my time were really freakin me out i dont know how to change it?help me lol
  • itsshiela
    oh thank you for accepting it,yah perez hilton's stuff were really cute lol.
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    Thanks for adding me back!
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    Hmm need some help?
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    What is this thing for? Doesn't seem like a live chat. I've received memories ... it doesn't show up in my public page? Lah ... what is it then? Oh freak! I just turned my chatboard into a FAQs section. back to work Chai! ...